Speaking the Love Language of Quality Time

"The greatest gift you can give to a special someone is your TIME. 

It's like giving a portion of your life that you can never bring back." 

Love is about finding one's real self; when you're spending your precious time with your lover, you discover that undiscovered parts of your life. Love is being there for your other half. Love is spending quality time together.

After taking the love language test, my result was Quality Time. Indeed, I strongly agree with what has been revealed from the test. Just a simple meet up somewhere with my loved one would be already a perfect day for me, and it doesn't have to be grandiose or what; what matters most for me is just the mere presence of the person close to my heart while talking about random things, about life, about our dreams and plans, about Jesus, and just being genuinely happy together. It doesn't really mean that we must see each other everyday because we may also have our own priorities, but again, no matter how busy we are, there must be a quality time for us to spend with. It's not about quantity, but quality time.

I never had a boyfriend since then, but I can say that I have also experienced the kind of love that every couple had. During those times, I realized that spending time with him was one of the best time for me. A small talk with him really lightened up my day. Until I knew what my love language is, indeed it manifested through my expression of love and the ways of love that my other half would offer to me. So when it's God's time that I would meet the right man for me, I would really love to spend time with him as we enjoy each other's company. Above all the love languages, quality time makes me feel loved the most. 

"The one who chooses to love will find appropriate ways to

 express that decision everyday." 

Unleashing the Seeker in Me

The Seeker is the second archetype that I got from the heroic myth index.

A seeker possess the gift or virtue of autonomy and ambition.

I was raised by my parents to become fully independent and an achiever in my academics.

Since I was a child, I was already trained to study on my own through making reviewers until now that I am already a college student. I have set my goals and by God's will and guidance, I believe that the Lord will direct my paths to where he would put me for His glory and honor.

Today is the day before the examination and as usual, I am busy preparing and writing my reviewers for the subjects tomorrow. It's easier for me to grasp or retain what I have studied if I have made my own reviewer, much more if I highlighted them. 

As a daughter and a student, it is my obligation to focus on my studies and be internally motivated to keep on striving for a better grade. I honestly do not settle for a passing grade if I know that I can do better. At the end of the day, all of my hardwork and effort will reap and will definitely lead me to success as I achieve my goals :)

My Lover Archetype

Hi there! :) It's been a long time since I updated my blog. A lot of good and great things happened for the past weeks, and now I want to share one of the best experiences that have happened.



As I took the heroic myth index, I found out that "Lover" is one of my archetypes. Possessing a lover archetype has a gift or virtue of being a passionate and committed person. I can say that I totally agree with what I have found within my self because I really value friendship. I would definitely make a way just to spend time with the people close to my heart. :)



I would like you to meet Elaine, or 'Lalai' as everyone call her. She is one of the best, trustworthy, and loving friend that I have. She knows me very well and same goes with me towards her. Aside from being friends, I used to call her 'Nak' as she calls me 'Mami' because we have a mother-daughter relationship since 1st year high school. XD (T'was a long story behind haha) and we agreed that Fridays would be our Fridate :))

So, because Friday would be a busy day for me due to exam, I decided to have it today since we have no class. We had lunch together at Jollibee Bajada, and some deep conversations would suffice our day. We talked about random stuffs, including the 'heart stuff' lol because she knows very well about it. We met at 11:30 am, and by 2:30 pm she attended her class and we agreed to meet up again at their dismissal. So while waiting, I went to school to pay my tuition and stayed at GMall afterwards.

By 4:00 pm, we met again and went to Cafe Demitasse at Torres. 

We just ordered a frappe and continued chitchatting until 6:00 pm. 

We even exchanged our books about love HAHA. 

Indeed, you could say that just a mere presence from a special person would 

really lighten up your day :) More bondings to come for us! :)