"The greatest gift you can give to a special someone is your TIME.
It's like giving a portion of your life that you can never bring back."
Love is about finding one's real self; when you're spending your precious time with your lover, you discover that undiscovered parts of your life. Love is being there for your other half. Love is spending quality time together.
After taking the love language test, my result was Quality Time. Indeed, I strongly agree with what has been revealed from the test. Just a simple meet up somewhere with my loved one would be already a perfect day for me, and it doesn't have to be grandiose or what; what matters most for me is just the mere presence of the person close to my heart while talking about random things, about life, about our dreams and plans, about Jesus, and just being genuinely happy together. It doesn't really mean that we must see each other everyday because we may also have our own priorities, but again, no matter how busy we are, there must be a quality time for us to spend with. It's not about quantity, but quality time.
I never had a boyfriend since then, but I can say that I have also experienced the kind of love that every couple had. During those times, I realized that spending time with him was one of the best time for me. A small talk with him really lightened up my day. Until I knew what my love language is, indeed it manifested through my expression of love and the ways of love that my other half would offer to me. So when it's God's time that I would meet the right man for me, I would really love to spend time with him as we enjoy each other's company. Above all the love languages, quality time makes me feel loved the most.
"The one who chooses to love will find appropriate ways to
express that decision everyday."
